The Rings

Traditionally the third finger of the left hand holds both the engagement and wedding ring, and the reason for this derives from ancient Egyptian culture. The culture believed that this finger contained the Vena Amoris (also known as vein of love) which ran directly from the finger to the heart. Although there is no scientific basis for this romantic notion it has endured through many generations and it is now a held tradition.

The Romans were the first to wear rings to symbolise union between man and woman, and were known as betrothal (truth) rings. The term betrothed derives from the Anglo Saxon word troweth to mean truth or pledge. The ring given symbolises the pledge of the woman to love the man who has proposed to her and no other.

Engagement rings have been made of many materials over history, including sapphires, emeralds and rubies for those who could afford them. However as Diamonds became more readily available in the 18th century onwards, they became the popular choice for engagement rings and this is still true today. In fact it is estimated that 78% of engagement rings sold every year are diamond.

The word diamond derives form the Greek word adamant which means steadfast and invincible, and this is how diamonds got their name. Diamonds are praised for being indestructible, invincible and exceedingly strong, and symbolize purity and light, protection from evil. Legend says that the diamonds sparkle rose from the lover’s fire, and therefore the true white diamond remains foremost the symbol of love.

The wedding ring is a visible seal of marriage, and worn by both the man and woman. In the 12th century AC, Pope Innocent III, declared all marriages must be celebrated in church and include a ring. Following this in 1549, the churches Book of Common Prayer designated the left hand as the marriage hand and subsequently King Edward VI declared the third finger of the left hand as the official ring finger. Traditionally the wedding ring is a single band of gold, referring back to religious times, hence the simplicity of the design.

Eternity rings are generally given after marriage on your first wedding anniversary or your first childs birth and signify the couples love as everlasting, unbreakable and ongoing. The ring is a circle with no beginning or end signifying the relationship and marriage as eternal.

Weddings-With-Style Tips:

Why not consider having your rings designed and handmade to create a unique and original look. You can also have rings engraved inside with initials, dates and personal messages of love.