The Bridegroom

So you have done the hard part and proposed so now the work starts for planning the wedding! Although your bride may have everything under control, remember this is your day too and so you should still play an active role in the build up to the proceedings.

In terms of attire you have two choices either retail or hire. Many options are available when it comes to the outfit but the most important thing to consider is that it complements with your brides dress. If you are a Scotsman then why not try the traditional highland wear and have yourself and groomsmen in kilts for the day to add an extra special look to the proceedings.

It is important that you look your best and enjoy your day, having attire that you feel comfortable in. Think about what you would like to wear and discuss this with your bride as it is important that your choices match the bridal colours and themes of the wedding.

You can choose form the traditional mourning suite, top hat and tails or go for a more relaxed attire with a dinner jacket and silk waistcoats. Both retailers and hire companies offer a lot of choice, but before making final decisions think about budget and financial gain.

It may be better to hire rather than buy if you want to wear a mourning suit, as you are not likely to wear it on many occasions, whereas if you decide to wear a dinner jacket, it may be better to buy as you can wear it time and time again.

An important factor to remember is that if you decide to go down the bespoke route with ties, cravats, cummerbunds and waistcoats, you need to make decisions months in advance if the items are to be tailor made.

Wear good shoes and make sure that they are comfortable, as you don’t want anything ruining the big day. Also make sure you wear good underwear, as your brides will be making an effort, so you should too! The Bridegrooms accessories are also important so why not add a new set of cufflinks to your outfit or a pocket watch for that traditional yet stylish look.

Hair and beauty is also important for the bridegroom and you should make that extra effort even if it is only a trip to the dentist! As a finishing touch fragrance suppliers provide his and her sets of perfume and aftershave, so try a few out.

Fitness is great for toning up and increasing energy levels, so encourage each other to exercise. Also don’t be afraid to try beauty treatments such as a massage or manicure, lots of men find them relaxing, and some beauty therapists have specially tailor made treatment packages just for men.

Speeches are a massive part of proceedings for the Bridegroom, Best Man and father of the bride, and you need to start thinking well in advance about what to say. The Bridegrooms speech should thank everyone and it is your job to make the presentation of gifts. Speeches should be amusing and keep the guests attention, however make sure they are not cheeky as this may be seen as offensive especially to parents or friends. Tips include keeping your speech short, and making sure you write it beforehand is a must. Leave a copy in large print at reception, or give a copy to someone responsible, so you don’t lose it or have to worry about making something up on the day. If you are really struggling with finding suitable jokes or are just a little nervous then why not think about asking a professional speech writer to help you.

Help your bride with the decision making in terms of Venues, Entertainment, and reception etc. Visit places and people together, and that way you will get the wedding that you both want. Make sure you consider each others thoughts and feelings, and if you disagree on any aspect of the preparations try to compromise, so you are both happy with the outcome. When is comes to planning you also need to support your bride when making guest lists, so that nobody is left out of your celebrations. As well as supporting your bride in the planning of your wedding you also have certain roles to fulfil, Click Here for more details.

Most importantly you need to make sure you support your bride every step of the way, give guidance, support and understanding and most importantly love. If your partner is feeling stressed buy them special gifts such as jewellery or little mementos in the week before the wedding, as this will help to keep you both focused on romance and the real reason why you are doing this.

When things may seem to get stressful all you need to remember is that she said yes and that these plans are building up to the best day of your life, so take a step back and think about the fact that you are the luckiest man in the world!

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