The Bride

Although as a bride you may have everything under control, remember this is the Bridegrooms day too and so he should still play an active role in the build up to the proceedings. It is important that the bridegroom helps you with the decision making in terms of venues, entertainment, and reception etc. Visit places and people together, and that way you will get the wedding that you both want. Make sure you consider each others thoughts and feelings, and if you disagree on any aspect of the preparations try to compromise, so you are both happy with the outcome. When planning you will also need his support when making guest lists, so that nobody is left out of your celebrations.

However as the bride you will also have certain roles to fulfil that are purely your responsibility, Click Here for more details.

In terms of attire, as you will know, the bridal dress sets the focus for the entire wedding event, so whatever you choose it should be what you have dreamed of since the day you decided to marry.

When going to choose a dress it is best to consider your Budget and then set aside complete day to start your search!

Why not choose a professional dress maker or designer for that extra unique dress. Made with your ideas and input it is a complete original, and something made to fit you perfectly. Designers can draw and sketch a dress incorporating your own ideas, and could even make your bridesmaids dresses to reflect the themes and styles you require. It would be a fantastic memento to keep, and even be a family heirloom in those precious years to come.

Think about fabrics. The fabric you choose may depend on the season you have chosen to get married. Winter dresses tend to combine heavy satins, brocades or velvet, as these materials will keep you warmer. When choosing winter garments it may be sensible to combine your dress with jackets, shawls, boleros or capes as this is a good idea for warmth especially if your wedding pictures are being taken outside.

Summer dresses combine fine cotton, lace, silk or chiffon. Strapless dresses or short sleeves are fine for summer weddings, and you may want to complete your look with diamantes, embroidery, or sequins for that completely individual look.

In terms of colours, white is no longer the only option. Cream, ivory and oyster are all popular choices for the more traditional look or if you feel like being different and want to make a statement then alternative dresses can be found in scarlet, gold, blue and even black.

When going to choose your dress visit as many shops as you can, try on as many styles as possible, and keep an open mind. Make sure you listen to the opinions of your friends and family as well as the opinions of dress fitters. See how comfortable you are in the dress when walking and sitting, and don’t rush into any decisions. Take a photograph of yourself in the dress, and come back to try it on a few times before making your final decision.

Be realistic about the size of your dress, in case you lose or put on weight and bear in mind you may need several fittings before the day. You will find that most shops do alter dresses, however do ask about charges beforehand.

If you are pregnant and expecting, then certain companies specialise in maternity gowns and will be able to help you with a dress to look perfect on the day. Again check regarding charges for alterations.

If you are having a themed wedding and are looking for that special dress some bridal shops have replica dresses, and will be available to advise you on the type of dress most suited to you. Sometimes you will be able to purchase head dresses, veils and accessories at the same shop. Whether this is the case or not, always try on the whole ensemble together including tiara, veil, shoes and even underwear to check it all coordinates and that there are no problems.

You should consider what lingerie you want to wear and ask shop assistants opinions on underwear, as you will not want unsightly outlines, or straps showing etc. Many companies provide a range of stunning bridal lingerie including bras, knickers, stockings, tights and garters in a variety of options to suit your dress and make you feel stunning on the day. It is a good idea to get someone to carry a pair of tights or stockings with them, so you have a spare pair in case of accidents on day!

Make sure you wear your shoes around the house to break them in as you don’t want them to be uncomfortable or rub you on the day.

Most people do say that you will know the right outfit when you try it on, and you need to make sure that the dress will make you feel special.

Ask your dress fitter how long it will take for your dress to be ordered or made, so that you know timescales which will give you enough time to plan Bridesmaids outfits, accessories and fittings.

Once these decisions are made it is time to think about the bridegroom and groomsmen’s outfits, and the choice of Flowers, all of which should compliment the design and colours of your dress. You should also consider hair and beauty Click Here for Weddings-With-Style top tips.

Also think about once the day is over, you may want to get your dress dry cleaned and many companies specialise in this. There are companies who also supply storage boxes so that after the wedding your dress can be stored in the style it deserves!

All other preparations you are undertaking may seem to get stressful at times, but all you need to remember is that these plans are building up to the best day of your life, so take a step back and think about the fact that you are the luckiest bride in the world!

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Don’t forget to de-stress and let your hair down once in a while and make sure you enjoy the hen weekend, Click Here to find out more!